Thursday, June 6, 2013

- as a daughter vs as a wife

Question: in your opinion, u could become as a good wife to compare you as a daughter?

Assalamualaikum. Hello and hye readers. Read and digest the question. Yeah. I would love to know about ur personal opinion. Could you become a good wife to compare as a daughter?

Because, in my opinion, if you fail to make you parents happy how could you success to make the outsiders to be happy? U know ur parents since you were born. But you know ur husband, perhaps for about 5 or 8 years. Please Excuse me about the number. No matter what is the figure, it still less than u know ur parents. Aite? As if, u will try ur best to understand ur husband instead of ur own parents? Homai!!!

Have you ever thought of that?

Hurm. Thus, let's us reflect to ourselves. Promised by Allah, every single action or deed that we contribute will be received rewards. Either good or bad. Life is like a cycle. Today we are a daughter, tomorrow as a wife, the next that after tomorrow we are a mother! N yes, we are going to 'teach' our daughters by experimenting our experience. Are't we?

There is an idiom or proverb in Malay which says "menjaga 10 ekor lembu lebih mudah daripada menjaga anak dara seorang". Get it?! *heee!

So, ladies. Starting from today, let's muhasabah ourselves. Let's practice to be a good daughter to our parents so then we could be a good wife to our husband and a good mother to our children. Simple analogy, aite?

Wokayh. Gonna start to do my revision. Till then. Buhbye.

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